diff --git a/src/Avalonia.Controls/Repeater/ItemsSourceView.cs b/src/Avalonia.Controls/Repeater/ItemsSourceView.cs
index 02ead7ef36..ecf8abc13f 100644
--- a/src/Avalonia.Controls/Repeater/ItemsSourceView.cs
+++ b/src/Avalonia.Controls/Repeater/ItemsSourceView.cs
@@ -96,6 +96,8 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls
         /// <returns>the item.</returns>
         public object GetAt(int index) => _inner[index];
 
+        public int IndexOf(object item) => _inner.IndexOf(item);
+
         /// <summary>
         /// Retrieves the index of the item that has the specified unique identifier (key).
         /// </summary>
diff --git a/src/Avalonia.Controls/SelectionModel.cs b/src/Avalonia.Controls/SelectionModel.cs
index c8d2c5cc9e..e5f79fa40f 100644
--- a/src/Avalonia.Controls/SelectionModel.cs
+++ b/src/Avalonia.Controls/SelectionModel.cs
@@ -73,6 +73,11 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls
             }
         }
 
+        public bool RetainSelectionOnReset 
+        {
+            get => _rootNode.RetainSelectionOnReset;
+            set => _rootNode.RetainSelectionOnReset = value;
+        }
 
         public IndexPath AnchorIndex
         {
@@ -497,7 +502,7 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls
         }
 
         public void OnSelectionInvalidatedDueToCollectionChange(
-            IReadOnlyList<object>? removedItems)
+            IReadOnlyList<object?>? removedItems)
         {
             var e = new SelectionModelSelectionChangedEventArgs(null, null, removedItems, null);
             OnSelectionChanged(e);
diff --git a/src/Avalonia.Controls/SelectionNode.cs b/src/Avalonia.Controls/SelectionNode.cs
index 85db801100..a8ad634d35 100644
--- a/src/Avalonia.Controls/SelectionNode.cs
+++ b/src/Avalonia.Controls/SelectionNode.cs
@@ -32,6 +32,8 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls
         private SelectionNodeOperation? _operation;
         private object? _source;
         private bool _selectedIndicesCacheIsValid;
+        private bool _retainSelectionOnReset;
+        private List<object?>? _selectedItems;
 
         public SelectionNode(SelectionModel manager, SelectionNode? parent)
         {
@@ -41,6 +43,40 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls
 
         public int AnchorIndex { get; set; } = -1;
 
+        public bool RetainSelectionOnReset 
+        {
+            get => _retainSelectionOnReset;
+            set
+            {
+                if (_retainSelectionOnReset != value)
+                {
+                    _retainSelectionOnReset = value;
+
+                    if (_retainSelectionOnReset)
+                    {
+                        _selectedItems = new List<object?>();
+
+                        foreach (var i in SelectedIndices)
+                        {
+                            _selectedItems.Add(ItemsSourceView!.GetAt(i));
+                        }
+                    }
+                    else
+                    {
+                        _selectedItems = null;
+                    }
+
+                    foreach (var child in _childrenNodes)
+                    {
+                        if (child != null)
+                        {
+                            child.RetainSelectionOnReset = value;
+                        }
+                    }
+                }
+            }
+        }
+
         public object? Source
         {
             get => _source;
@@ -414,6 +450,14 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls
             {
                 _operation?.Selected(selected);
 
+                if (_selectedItems != null)
+                {
+                    for (var i = addRange.Begin; i <= addRange.End; ++i)
+                    {
+                        _selectedItems.Add(ItemsSourceView!.GetAt(i));
+                    }
+                }
+
                 if (raiseOnSelectionChanged)
                 {
                     OnSelectionChanged();
@@ -431,6 +475,14 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls
             {
                 _operation?.Deselected(removed);
 
+                if (_selectedItems != null)
+                {
+                    for (var i = removeRange.Begin; i <= removeRange.End; ++i)
+                    {
+                        _selectedItems.Remove(ItemsSourceView!.GetAt(i));
+                    }
+                }
+
                 if (raiseOnSelectionChanged)
                 {
                     OnSelectionChanged();
@@ -448,6 +500,7 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls
                 OnSelectionChanged();
             }
 
+            _selectedItems?.Clear();
             SelectedCount = 0;
             AnchorIndex = -1;
 
@@ -492,7 +545,7 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls
         private void OnSourceListChanged(object dataSource, NotifyCollectionChangedEventArgs args)
         {
             bool selectionInvalidated = false;
-            List<object>? removed = null;
+            List<object?>? removed = null;
 
             switch (args.Action)
             {
@@ -509,11 +562,19 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls
                 }
 
                 case NotifyCollectionChangedAction.Reset:
-                {
-                    ClearSelection();
-                    selectionInvalidated = true;
-                    break;
-                }
+                    {
+                        if (_selectedItems == null)
+                        {
+                            ClearSelection();
+                        }
+                        else
+                        {
+                            removed = RecreateSelectionFromSelectedItems();
+                        }
+
+                        selectionInvalidated = true;
+                        break;
+                    }
 
                 case NotifyCollectionChangedAction.Replace:
                 {
@@ -606,10 +667,10 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls
             return selectionInvalidated;
         }
 
-        private (bool, List<object>) OnItemsRemoved(int index, IList items)
+        private (bool, List<object?>) OnItemsRemoved(int index, IList items)
         {
             var selectionInvalidated = false;
-            var removed = new List<object>();
+            var removed = new List<object?>();
             var count = items.Count;
             
             // Remove the items from the selection for leaf
@@ -804,6 +865,33 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls
             return selectionState;
         }
 
+        private List<object?> RecreateSelectionFromSelectedItems()
+        {
+            var removed = new List<object?>();
+
+            _selected.Clear();
+            SelectedCount = 0;
+
+            for (var i = 0; i < _selectedItems!.Count; ++i)
+            {
+                var item = _selectedItems[i];
+                var index = ItemsSourceView!.IndexOf(item);
+
+                if (index != -1)
+                {
+                    IndexRange.Add(_selected, new IndexRange(index, index));
+                    ++SelectedCount;
+                }
+                else
+                {
+                    removed.Add(item);
+                    _selectedItems.RemoveAt(i--);
+                }
+            }
+
+            return removed;
+        }
+
         public enum SelectionState
         {
             Selected,
diff --git a/tests/Avalonia.Controls.UnitTests/SelectionModelTests.cs b/tests/Avalonia.Controls.UnitTests/SelectionModelTests.cs
index b9149bf42b..b3a5e0959f 100644
--- a/tests/Avalonia.Controls.UnitTests/SelectionModelTests.cs
+++ b/tests/Avalonia.Controls.UnitTests/SelectionModelTests.cs
@@ -7,6 +7,7 @@ using System;
 using System.Collections;
 using System.Collections.Generic;
 using System.Collections.ObjectModel;
+using System.Collections.Specialized;
 using System.Linq;
 using Avalonia.Collections;
 using Avalonia.Diagnostics;
@@ -1392,6 +1393,107 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls.UnitTests
             Assert.Equal(2, raised);
         }
 
+        [Fact]
+        public void RetainSelectionOnReset_Retains_Selection_On_Reset()
+        {
+            var data = new ResettingList<string> { "foo", "bar", "baz" };
+            var target = new SelectionModel { Source = data, RetainSelectionOnReset = true };
+
+            target.SelectRange(new IndexPath(1), new IndexPath(2));
+            data.Reset();
+
+            Assert.Equal(new[] { new IndexPath(1), new IndexPath(2) }, target.SelectedIndices);
+            Assert.Equal(new[] { "bar", "baz" }, target.SelectedItems);
+        }
+
+        [Fact]
+        public void RetainSelectionOnReset_Retains_Correct_Selection_After_Remove()
+        {
+            var data = new ResettingList<string> { "foo", "bar", "baz" };
+            var target = new SelectionModel { Source = data, RetainSelectionOnReset = true };
+
+            target.SelectRange(new IndexPath(1), new IndexPath(2));
+            target.Deselect(2);
+            data.Reset();
+
+            Assert.Equal(new[] { new IndexPath(1) }, target.SelectedIndices);
+            Assert.Equal(new[] { "bar", }, target.SelectedItems);
+        }
+
+        [Fact]
+        public void RetainSelectionOnReset_Retains_No_Selection_After_Clear()
+        {
+            var data = new ResettingList<string> { "foo", "bar", "baz" };
+            var target = new SelectionModel { Source = data, RetainSelectionOnReset = true };
+
+            target.SelectRange(new IndexPath(1), new IndexPath(2));
+            target.ClearSelection();
+            data.Reset();
+
+            Assert.Empty(target.SelectedIndices);
+            Assert.Empty(target.SelectedItems);
+        }
+
+        [Fact]
+        public void RetainSelectionOnReset_Retains_Correct_Selection_After_Two_Resets()
+        {
+            var data = new ResettingList<string> { "foo", "bar", "baz" };
+            var target = new SelectionModel { Source = data, RetainSelectionOnReset = true };
+
+            target.SelectRange(new IndexPath(1), new IndexPath(2));
+            data.Reset(new[] { "foo", "bar" });
+            data.Reset(new[] { "foo", "bar", "baz" });
+
+            Assert.Equal(new[] { new IndexPath(1) }, target.SelectedIndices);
+            Assert.Equal(new[] { "bar", }, target.SelectedItems);
+        }
+
+        [Fact]
+        public void RetainSelectionOnReset_Raises_Empty_SelectionChanged_On_Reset_With_No_Changes()
+        {
+            var data = new ResettingList<string> { "foo", "bar", "baz" };
+            var target = new SelectionModel { Source = data, RetainSelectionOnReset = true };
+            var raised = 0;
+
+            target.SelectRange(new IndexPath(1), new IndexPath(2));
+
+            target.SelectionChanged += (s, e) =>
+            {
+                Assert.Empty(e.DeselectedIndices);
+                Assert.Empty(e.DeselectedItems);
+                Assert.Empty(e.SelectedIndices);
+                Assert.Empty(e.SelectedItems);
+                ++raised;
+            };
+
+            data.Reset();
+
+            Assert.Equal(1, raised);
+        }
+
+        [Fact]
+        public void RetainSelectionOnReset_Raises_SelectionChanged_On_Reset_With_Removed_Items()
+        {
+            var data = new ResettingList<string> { "foo", "bar", "baz" };
+            var target = new SelectionModel { Source = data, RetainSelectionOnReset = true };
+            var raised = 0;
+
+            target.SelectRange(new IndexPath(1), new IndexPath(2));
+
+            target.SelectionChanged += (s, e) =>
+            {
+                Assert.Empty(e.DeselectedIndices);
+                Assert.Equal(new[] { "bar" }, e.DeselectedItems);
+                Assert.Empty(e.SelectedIndices);
+                Assert.Empty(e.SelectedItems);
+                ++raised;
+            };
+
+            data.Reset(new[] { "foo", "baz" });
+
+            Assert.Equal(1, raised);
+        }
+
         private int GetSubscriberCount(AvaloniaList<object> list)
         {
             return ((INotifyCollectionChangedDebug)list).GetCollectionChangedSubscribers()?.Length ?? 0;
@@ -1743,6 +1845,24 @@ namespace Avalonia.Controls.UnitTests
             public LogWrapper(ITestOutputHelper output) => _output = output;
             public void Comment(string s) => _output.WriteLine(s);
         }
+
+        private class ResettingList<T> : List<object>, INotifyCollectionChanged
+        {
+            public event NotifyCollectionChangedEventHandler CollectionChanged;
+
+            public void Reset(IEnumerable<object> items = null)
+            {
+                if (items != null)
+                {
+                    Clear();
+                    AddRange(items);
+                }
+
+                CollectionChanged?.Invoke(
+                    this, 
+                    new NotifyCollectionChangedEventArgs(NotifyCollectionChangedAction.Reset));
+            }
+        }
     }
 
     class CustomSelectionModel : SelectionModel